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Children, teenagers and youth daily receive many messages linking sexual relationships to violence. There are also a few messages linking affective and sexual relationships to no-violence and to love. Unfortunately, some professionals orient the co-education programs to attack these few messages of no-violence, telling children, adolescents and youth that love tales generate violence. Even in some universities, there are no works criticizing films and books like “The Perfume”, a tale of a serial killer of women, and there are plenty of works criticizing romantic stories in which there are no behaviors internationally classified as gender violence.
- In sporadic relationships there is more freedom than in stable ones
- If someone has more hooking-up experience, he or she is more of a sex expert
- It doesn’t matter with whom you hook up, there are no consequences
- Stable relationships oppress women’s freedom
NEEDS MORE EVIDENCE
- It’s coercive discourse when someone invites you for drinks and then pretends to have sex with you
- Sexual freedom does not depend on the choice or choices made (heterosexual, LGBTI…), but on whether or not that choice or choices are made freely, without coercion.
- COVID-19 has changed choices of hook-ups